One cannot judge what is the heart by appearance alone. |
THE famous English expression “don’t judge a book by
its cover” is an oft-used adage that has become curled at the edges. Covered
with greasy fingerprints and yellowed with age, I’m forced to use it because
there are none better.
It implies, with little ambiguity, that the cover of a
book may not be indicative of its contents – that something may not be what it
appears to be, that the human personality may not always be the sum of its
appearance.
On another level, the saying warns against prejudice:
we should caution ourselves against judging the human condition purely through its
outer shell. Behind a friendly smile there might lurk a back-stabbing enemy, behind
jolly laughter there might just be great sadness.
But judging a book by its cover carries a further caveat: we cannot think that its inner issues
are incomprehensible just because we might not be aware of them. What may be
mystery to us is painfully obvious to the one who has opened the book and
experienced it. There is always someone wiser than us to teach us a lesson.
And don’t think that we can ever reduce the contents
of a book to its cover. The secrets of metaphor cannot be condensed into
literal paraphrase, or be summarily discarded just because they might challenge
the limitations of our own stunted thought.
In other words, the sacred cannot be shrunk to its husk
like a cannibal’s head on a stick. Or, to put it into theological terms, we
cannot reduce God. This is something that represents the biggest crisis of
modern times, the inexplicable, Infinite Divine becoming the Reader’s Digest of our soul.
And hopefully without sounding like I’m ranting from a
Friday pulpit, we have to admit that in Islam we’ve not been exempt from this
affliction of reducing the Divine. Islam’s ‘puritans’ – so desirous of reducing
the time-honoured customs of Islam to dust – have probably been the worst contemporary
culprits of judging a book by its cover.
Their obnoxious culture of takfir – declaring unbelief
on all those who disagree with them – is the worst possible manifestation of this
narrow mindset, one that naively thinks that all covers must be the same, and
that the cover is actually the whole book of Islam.
Those who arrogantly reduce God (and May Allah forgive
us for saying this) to ‘an old man sitting in a wooden chair’ really need to
examine the tragic import of their literalism.
My first real experience of this reductionism – Islam
caricatured in ritual and physical appearance – occurred during the apartheid
era over twenty years ago at Nairobi
airport. Like so many South Africans at the time, I’d been stranded. In those
days there were no transit visas. As apartheid’s personae non grata we would be
confined to the airport.
A group of Muslims landed on their way to Jeddah, and
as they were about to pray, I innocently joined their congregation. I’d been
travelling on my own and longed for human company. But it was only after the
salah that I realised I’d upset their sensitivities.
“He didn’t even have a topi or wear a kurtah!” hissed
one of the bearded elders loudly enough for me to hear.
I had not been Muslim for long, and his words really stung
me. What had a hat and an oriental coat have to do with prayer? Only much later
did I realise my huge sin – that I hadn’t worn a fez or Pakistani clothing. Appearance,
it seemed, was far more important than what was in my heart.
Another such instance was when an eminent Egyptian
scholar (who will have to remain nameless) visited our South African shores,
and was prevented from leading the prayer in Durban because he did not have a
beard.
A literalist misunderstanding of the Sunnah (the
Prophet’s noble way) had led to a belief that the length of a person’s beard
determined their piety for leading the prayer. Suffice it to say that the
scholar was totally flabbergasted. He wrote a scathing article about the gross ignorance
of South African Muslims when he got home.
Of course, the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) had said “trim
your moustaches and grow your beards” but the context – ignored by those only
interested in the cover of the book – was that the Prophet (SAW) had wanted
Muslims to look different from the Persians who had shaved their chins and grown
their moustaches into whiskers.
Applying this principle, the Egyptian scholar came
from a country where Copts, and even Jews, wore long beards. To look
‘different’ in his environment was to be clean-shaven.
Then there was the ‘ruhsah’ (the legal relief) of the
beard not having to be obligatory in the legal sense. The underlying wisdom was
that people such as the Chinese or Indonesians, many of whom could not grow
beards, would not be excluded from Islam.
Then there have been the recent historical examples of
Bosnian Muslims. When your neighbourhoods are being ethnically-cleansed, the
wisdom of wearing a mullah-type beard is definitely questionable.
Even in holy places, one encounters those who can only
see their universe in extremely limited terms. Once at al-Aqsa, where my
Muslim-ness is challenged at every prayer time, I had asked one of the waqf
guards how he actually decided people were Muslim.
“Zabiba”, he said, pointing to his forehead where some
Muslims (mostly Salafis and Wahhabis) display what the Arabs call a ‘raisin’
from making prostration of the prayer.
When I showed him that most of those people he was
letting through the gates had clear foreheads, and that Islam – according to Prophetic
Tradition – was a matter of the heart, all he could do was become irritated. Luckily,
he chased me into the Sanctuary, and not out of it.
Another instance of this shallowness, the judging of a
book by its cover, occurred to me in a well-known Arab country. In a twist to the
usual scenario, a person watched me intently make my prayer. After I’d finished,
he approached me and asked me whether I was Muslim.
Perhaps one of Islam’s finest examples of ritual
perfection was Imam Shafi’i, whose memory always humbles me every time I take
wudu, and wash my limbs for ceremonial prayer.
Regarded as one of history’s greatest jurists, he taught
that the ritual prayer was a sacrosanct act. His postures were so precise, his
demeanour so focused that people used to watch him pray in amazement.
A literalist’s dream, it was said that if one poured
water on his back during the ruku’, the bowing of the prayer movement, it would
not run off. But for the great Imam Shafi’i, a Gazan by birth, the perfection
of his ritual was a mirror of his inner condition.
Or as Imam Ghazali would say in later centuries:
ritual without an understanding of its inner meaning would be pointless, and
deeds without knowledge would be meaningless.
Of course, the biggest danger of us reducing God is
God reducing us. Parables of this are legend. One such instance that springs
immediately to mind is something that happened in Cape Town to a friend of mine
some years ago.
There was a ‘street person’ in his middle-class (non-Muslim)
neighbourhood who had distinctly annoying habits. Smelly, often drunk and
sometimes downright rude, he would often bang on the man’s door demanding food
or money.
“One cold night he made a racket on my stoep, and I
rebuked him for his poor manners. He looked a little sorry after that, so I
heated him some soup. When I gave it to him, something amazing happened…something
I’ll remember for the rest of my life,” he said.
“As the man stood by my door a different, sober voice
came from inside him that said: ‘Alhamdulillah, Praise Be to Allah!’”
“I got such a fright that I nearly jumped out of my
skin,” he said, “and from that day on I’ve learnt to never judge a book by its
cover. That man, whoever he was, taught me through my own pride never to judge
others for what might, or might not be, in their hearts just because of their
appearance.”